{"id":2945,"date":"2022-02-11T12:38:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-11T12:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/?p=2945"},"modified":"2022-02-11T12:37:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-11T12:37:53","slug":"homelessness-it-can-happen-to-anyone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/?p=2945","title":{"rendered":"HOMELESSNESS: IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ module_id=”canny-blogpost” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” collapsed=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row disabled_on=”off|off|off” module_id=”authentology-blogpost” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-50px||-50px||true|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text content_tablet=”

At age 19, Ru Fitzhenry opened her first dance studio.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

At age 45 she lost EVERYTHING.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

But a lioness doesn\u2019t go down without a fight.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inspiration. Motivation. Hope. You\u2019ll find it all here\u2026<\/span><\/p>” content_last_edited=”off|tablet” disabled_on=”off|off|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” text_font_size=”18px” global_colors_info=”{}”]

\u2018My life has changed. I\u2019m still a regular at Sanctuary — only this time as a helper.<\/strong>\u00a0All thanks to the volunteers who care about the homeless.\u2019 — John, former Sanctuary \u2018guest\u2019<\/em>.\u00a0<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”50px||0px||false|false” custom_margin_tablet=”5px||0px||false|false” custom_margin_phone=”5px||20px||false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”off|tablet” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Gravesham-Sanctuary-lounge.jpg” alt=”Sanctuary Reception” title_text=”Gravesham Sanctuary lounge” align=”center” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||||false|false” custom_padding=”0px||||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||false|false” custom_margin_tablet=”5px||20px||false|false” custom_margin_phone=”5px||20px||false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”off|tablet” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text content_tablet=”

Art, Life & Soul Design and Illustration<\/strong><\/a> covers many types of graphic design, from logos and branding — particularly for start-ups — to advertising for local event companies and menus for pubs and restaurants.<\/p>\n

Georgina also creates the most incredible pet portraits on commission. (She calls them PAWtraits. Isn\u2019t that adorable?)<\/p>\n

There being no end to this artist\u2019s talents, Georgina has recently become an author as well, having written and illustrated her first children\u2019s book.<\/p>\n

Be inspired, and discover:<\/p>\n

Georgina\u2019s gorgeous CHRISTMAS RANGE.<\/p>\n

PLUS:<\/em> a BEAUTIFULLY ILLUSTRATED STORY for three- to eight-year-olds.<\/p>\n

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Art, Life & Soul Design and Illustration<\/strong> <\/a>covers many types of graphic design, from logos and branding — particularly for start-ups — to advertising for local event companies and menus for pubs and restaurants.<\/p>\n

Georgina also creates the most incredible pet portraits on commission. (She calls them PAWtraits. Isn\u2019t that adorable?)<\/p>\n

There being no end to this artist\u2019s talents, Georgina has recently become an author as well, having written and illustrated her first children\u2019s book.<\/p>\n

Be inspired, and discover:<\/p>\n

Georgina\u2019s gorgeous CHRISTMAS RANGE.<\/p>\n

PLUS:<\/em> a BEAUTIFULLY ILLUSTRATED STORY for three- to eight-year-olds.<\/p>” content_last_edited=”off|phone” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” custom_margin_tablet=”0px||||false|false” custom_margin_phone=”0px||||false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”off|tablet” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Gravesham Sanctuary<\/strong><\/a>, a charity supported by Churches Together in Gravesham, UK, provides a free overnight shelter<\/strong> from October to April for the local homeless community. Their service includes: a safe place to sleep during the winter months, hot food and refreshments, showers, clothing and laundry, and help in getting paperwork ID.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not all.<\/strong> They also signpost rough sleepers to agencies and local groups who can assist with long-term accommodation, employment, physical and mental health, repatriation to their home country, and help them make the most of their life as a disciple of Jesus Christ.<\/p>\n

As a Christian organisation, they believe that one experiences fullness in life when entering a personal relationship with God.\u00a0However, they do not \u2018Bible punch\u2019, and they welcome anyone<\/strong> of any race or belief.<\/p>\n

Sanctuary\u2019s Project Manager Stephen Nolan<\/strong> says: \u2018It is through our actions and love for mankind that we demonstrate the lifestyle we hope others will adopt.\u2019<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ disabled_on=”off|off|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-27px||10px||false|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Front-Door.jpg” alt=”Shelter Entrance” title_text=”Sanctuary Front Door” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”30px||||false|false” custom_padding=”0px||||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Bad Script|700|||||||” text_text_color=”#025454″ text_font_size=”20px” text_letter_spacing=”2px” background_color=”RGBA(255,255,255,0)” text_orientation=”center” custom_margin=”75px||75px||true|false” custom_padding=”11px|0px|11px|0px|true|true” border_width_all=”2px” border_color_all=”#409993″ border_style_all=”none” box_shadow_style=”preset6″ global_colors_info=”{}”]

Much of our Learning has been in the Doing<\/b><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Steve, why, how & when did Gravesham Sanctuary start up? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sanctuary started in December 2015. It wasn\u2019t my idea. At the age of sixty, after thirty years in the police service and a further eight in local government, I was looking to retire.\u00a0<\/p>\n

At the time I was involved in a church that had an outreach to the community, and part of that was finding the homeless on the streets. In supporting this initiative we found people sleeping in doorways, in tents, behind bins\u2026\u00a0<\/p>\n

Our then pastor suggested we attend a meeting in Dartford for a winter shelter starting their third year. Initially I said, \u2018No way\u2019. I had no intention of getting involved. Besides, I had another meeting to attend that night.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Well, it seems God had other ideas. My meeting was cancelled at the last minute, so I ended up going to Dartford with my wife, Lorna. We listened to the views of volunteers and all the churches involved, and we thought: How hard can it be?\u00a0<\/p>\n

If only we had known…\u00a0<\/p>\n

Gravesham Sanctuary was born five weeks later.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ disabled_on=”on|on|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-24px||||false|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.13.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Did you require any specific education for this role? Or did your former job give you the insight and skills needed? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Undoubtedly my former training as a police officer, dealing with all manner of incidents and problems requiring, sometimes, fast thinking and understanding, combined with Christian compassion, helped me to adapt to the skills required to oversee the shelter.\u00a0<\/p>\n

To be honest, much of our learning has been in the doing<\/strong> over the years we have been involved in this project. We never call ourselves experts, but in the doing we have learnt an incredible amount about the plight of homeless people.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.13.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Dinner.jpg” alt=”fellowship over a meal” title_text=”Sanctuary Dinner” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ disabled_on=”off|off|on” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-24px||||false|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.13.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Dinner.jpg” alt=”fellowship over a meal” title_text=”Sanctuary Dinner” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.13.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Did you require any specific education for this role? Or did your former job give you the insight and skills needed? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Undoubtedly my former training as a police officer, dealing with all manner of incidents and problems requiring, sometimes, fast thinking and understanding, combined with Christian compassion, helped me to adapt to the skills required to oversee the shelter.\u00a0<\/p>\n

To be honest, much of our learning has been in the doing<\/strong> over the years we have been involved in this project. We never call ourselves experts, but in the doing we have learnt an incredible amount about the plight of homeless people.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ disabled_on=”off|off|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-27px||||false|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.13.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Bad Script|700|||||||” text_text_color=”#025454″ text_font_size=”20px” text_letter_spacing=”2px” background_color=”RGBA(255,255,255,0)” text_orientation=”center” custom_margin=”0px||75px||false|false” custom_padding=”11px|0px|11px|0px|true|true” border_width_all=”2px” border_color_all=”#409993″ border_style_all=”none” box_shadow_style=”preset6″ global_colors_info=”{}”]

Being Homeless Is Stressful and Unsafe<\/b><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Guests-game.jpg” alt=”Trivial Pursuit” title_text=”Sanctuary Guests game” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.13.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Any highlights you\u2019d like to share?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There are quite a few. We took in a schizophrenic man once. His dog was his whole life, which changed our perception of how important personal belongings are. We smuggled the dog in so they could sleep under a blanket together. Not something we\u2019d normally do, but God created not only man but our pets too.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Our faith plays an important role in how we help and support those in need. We offer prayer, and we\u2019ll reconnect family members if required. We find that, with gentle persuasion, guests usually request contact with their parents, just to inform them they are safe and well. One of my memorable moments was seeing someone from a different faith trying to persuade her eighteen-year-old son, who was in our shelter, to come home. He did not want to, and she was so upset, and problems like these cross faith boundaries<\/strong>; so my wife consoled and hugged this lady as she battled with the love and despair she felt for her son. The good news is: he returned home a week later.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Working at Sanctuary, we can become ultra-tired: early morning and night shifts can be a killer; plus the forty to fifty hours a week tend to take their toll. What makes this enjoyable is the laughter when a chess game, or a giant jigsaw, is finished<\/strong>; the transformation when someone is clothed and clean and happy, and content to be called by their given name. When a guest weeps at being reconnected with a family member<\/strong>, or at being able to return to their country of origin\u2026 It makes the role worthwhile.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Many of our guests are vulnerable and struggle with their mental health — being homeless is stressful and unsafe. We love it when change occurs and we see the weary person laugh. Being clean and well-fed, and knowing they are cared for by people who have their genuine interest at heart, makes a huge difference.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”3_5,2_5″ disabled_on=”on|on|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-17px||||false|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Can you tell us about a few of the Sanctuary Guests whose lives have been transformed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There are so many. One woman immediately comes to mind. We\u2019ll call her \u2018A\u2019. A spent four years on the street and lost her child<\/strong> as she was considered an unfit mother, so she resorted to drug use. She ended up alone in London with no one to call upon\u2026 Today, A is a completely different woman. After spending time at Sanctuary, she started selling The Big Issue<\/em> magazine at a regular pitch, and saved her money. And now she has a council flat, which she\u2019s furnished, and she responsibly manages her rent payments. She not only has a job, she also provides support for others as a volunteer. Best of all, she\u2019s in touch with her now grown-up son.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Then there\u2019s an older ex-veteran<\/strong> who used to be our guest. He now resides in a council flat with supportive living access; he cooks and manages his life; and he\u2019s joined SAFFA and a local ex-veteran group from his old regiment. <\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Press.jpg” alt=”news article” title_text=”Sanctuary Press” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ disabled_on=”off|off|on” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-17px||||false|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Press.jpg” alt=”news article” title_text=”Sanctuary Press” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Can you tell us about a few of the Sanctuary Guests whose lives have been transformed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There are so many. One woman immediately comes to mind. We\u2019ll call her \u2018A\u2019. A spent four years on the street and lost her child<\/strong> as she was considered an unfit mother, so she resorted to drug use. She ended up alone in London with no one to call upon\u2026 Today, A is a completely different woman. After spending time at Sanctuary, she started selling The Big Issue<\/em> magazine at a regular pitch, and saved her money. And now she has a council flat, which she\u2019s furnished, and she responsibly manages her rent payments. She not only has a job, she also provides support for others as a volunteer. Best of all, she\u2019s in touch with her now grown-up son.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Then there\u2019s an older ex-veteran<\/strong> who used to be our guest. He now resides in a council flat with supportive living access; he cooks and manages his life; and he\u2019s joined SAFFA and a local ex-veteran group from his old regiment. <\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ disabled_on=”off|off|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||||false|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Guest.jpg” alt=”tattooed hands” title_text=”Sanctuary Guest” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-sleeping-area.jpg” alt=”airbeds” title_text=”Sanctuary sleeping area” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Do you have any advice for others who aspire to make a difference? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Be Bold. God works when you least expect it.<\/strong> For example, the moment we knew Sanctuary was going ahead, we put out a call for volunteers. Initially it was just to run an overnight shelter with evening meals, three nights a week. In faith we laid out 60 chairs\u2026 And what happened? 180 people turned up!\u00a0<\/p>\n

The best advice I can give is: just learn from our experience. My wife and I had been looking forward to a gentle retirement\u2026 but God had an opportunity in mind! We were willing and able, and we learnt a huge amount about homelessness by doing what we set out to do: seeking the lost, feeding the hungry, offering shelter and, above all, supporting those who want change<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We are realistic and have Hope at the forefront of our mission. We are there in times of crisis, in the good and bad moments, and we never give up<\/em><\/strong> — something other charities and statutory agencies may have to do, due to lack of finances or time.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We listened to others, travelled around to find information, sought advice from those who had set other shelters up, and joined Homeless Link and Housing Justice (a Christian-led charity for the homeless).\u00a0<\/p>\n

The Bible says: \u2018Share your food with the hungry and give shelter to the homeless; give clothes to those who need them.<\/strong>\u2019 (Isaiah 58:7) Jesus reminded us of this in the book of Matthew. The way we see it: if Jesus says to do this, then so should we.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”3_5,2_5″ disabled_on=”on|on|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||true|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

What was your steepest learning curve? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Being able to understand with compassion the stories we heard from our homeless guests. Until we encountered people sleeping rough: living in bushes, under tarpaulins and in encampments, we had no idea of the prejudice and safety issues they struggle with daily. We learnt very quickly, sometimes after having crawled through bushes to reach them, that homelessness is hidden away<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n

One of the testimonies we heard in the early days from a guy who had been homeless was: \u2018Most people as they grow up have hopes and aspirations in life: a family, a home, nice clothes, car, holidays\u2026 The list goes on. But if you\u2019re homeless and on the streets, you have none of these. The only thought you have is: How do I survive the next two hours on the street\u2026<\/strong> and the next two after that? And so it goes on.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

Is it any wonder that some (not all) turn to drink and\/or drugs? Wrong choice, of course, but you can well understand why. We have heard some heartbreaking stories over the years. There but for the grace of God go I.<\/strong><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Dining-Room.jpg” alt=”eating area” title_text=”Sanctuary Dining Room” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ disabled_on=”off|off|on” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||true|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Dining-Room.jpg” alt=”eating area” title_text=”Sanctuary Dining Room” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

What was your steepest learning curve? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Being able to understand with compassion the stories we heard from our homeless guests. Until we encountered people sleeping rough: living in bushes, under tarpaulins and in encampments, we had no idea of the prejudice and safety issues they struggle with daily. We learnt very quickly, sometimes after having crawled through bushes to reach them, that homelessness is hidden away<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n

One of the testimonies we heard in the early days from a guy who had been homeless was: \u2018Most people as they grow up have hopes and aspirations in life: a family, a home, nice clothes, car, holidays\u2026 The list goes on. But if you\u2019re homeless and on the streets, you have none of these. The only thought you have is: How do I survive the next two hours on the street\u2026<\/strong> and the next two after that? And so it goes on.\u2019\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

Is it any wonder that some (not all) turn to drink and\/or drugs? Wrong choice, of course, but you can well understand why. We have heard some heartbreaking stories over the years. There but for the grace of God go I.<\/strong><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||true|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Community.jpg” alt=”colouring in” title_text=”Sanctuary Community” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

What would you like to say to people struggling with compassion for the homeless?<\/strong><\/p>\n

We think our main role as ambassadors for the homeless is myth busting and breaking taboos. Homelessness can happen to anyone<\/em>.<\/strong> Having to sleep on the street can occur at any time in someone\u2019s life — and can have devastating consequences.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”3_5,2_5″ disabled_on=”on|on|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||true|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” custom_margin=”0px||||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Where does the financial support come from? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Running the shelter is costly, so we rely on public donations<\/strong> throughout the year. We are constantly amazed by, and always grateful for, people\u2019s generosity: a jar of sweets from a family, a Christmas dinner from a major retailer, ten quid from a pensioner, good-quality clothing from a school, sugar and teabags from a local shop\u2026 As the advert says: \u2018Every little helps<\/strong>\u2019 — and we make use of every bit we get.\u00a0<\/p>\n

New underwear and toiletries are essentials for our guests who, after a hot shower, need fresh clothing. We see \u2018little\u2019 donations as a blessing and the bigger ones as the providence of God.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We are supported locally by several schools, churches, Rotary Clubs, Women\u2019s Institutes, small businesses and the community. And when the pandemic started, the government stepped up with a donation through Housing Justice, which saw us through the last two years. <\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Store.jpg” alt=”storage room” title_text=”Sanctuary Store” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ disabled_on=”off|off|on” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||true|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Store.jpg” alt=”storage room” title_text=”Sanctuary Store” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” custom_margin=”0px||||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Where does the financial support come from? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Running the shelter is costly, so we rely on public donations<\/strong> throughout the year. We are constantly amazed by, and always grateful for, people\u2019s generosity: a jar of sweets from a family, a Christmas dinner from a major retailer, ten quid from a pensioner, good-quality clothing from a school, sugar and teabags from a local shop\u2026 As the advert says: \u2018Every little helps<\/strong>\u2019 — and we make use of every bit we get.\u00a0<\/p>\n

New underwear and toiletries are essentials for our guests who, after a hot shower, need fresh clothing. We see \u2018little\u2019 donations as a blessing and the bigger ones as the providence of God.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We are supported locally by several schools, churches, Rotary Clubs, Women\u2019s Institutes, small businesses and the community. And when the pandemic started, the government stepped up with a donation through Housing Justice, which saw us through the last two years. <\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/barnsmokepictures.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Sanctuary-Fellowship.jpg” alt=”Dominoes” title_text=”Sanctuary Fellowship” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

How can the public help?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides funding, which is always a constant challenge for us, we would be grateful for more volunteers<\/strong>. Many of our volunteers are members of the public — you and me.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We can all help in so many ways: cooking a meal; playing board games; just listening to our guests, and treating them with respect, can improve the lives of those sleeping rough. We can be their support and their encourager.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row disabled_on=”off|off|off” _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||true|false” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Steve, thank you so much for giving this interview. You and Lorna are pillars of the community. May God continue to bless your endeavours!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Gravesham Sanctuary<\/strong><\/a> is a registered charity (no. 1181817 in England & Wales). If you\u2019re local or nearby, why not look them up and see how you can help? Having volunteered there with my husband, I can categorically state that you feel completely uplifted after a shift at Sanctuary! Making a difference<\/strong> in people\u2019s lives is what it\u2019s all about, right?<\/p>\n

Connect with Gravesham Sanctuary on Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, or Instagram<\/strong><\/a>, or on their<\/strong> website<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||0px||false|false” custom_padding=”0px||0px||false|false” collapsed=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_divider _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_divider][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” collapsed=”on” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.14.0″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Raleway||||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”]

Tweetable TAKEAWAYS<\/u><\/strong>:<\/strong><\/p>\n

MAKING A DIFFERENCE IS EASIER THAN YOU THINK.<\/strong><\/p>\n

BE BOLD. TAKE ACTION NOW.<\/p>\n

WHAT IS LOVE? FEEDING THE HUNGRY. SHELTERING THE HOMELESS. CLOTHING THE NEEDY.<\/strong><\/p>\n

HOMELESSNESS IS HIDDEN AWAY. LET’S DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS!<\/p>\n

HOMELESSNESS CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE. THERE BUT FOR THE GRACE OF GOD GO I.<\/p>\n

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